9 CHANGES MEN SHOULD MAKE TO MAKE A RELATIONSHIP SUCCESSFUL

Dec 18, 2011

How to Make a Relationship Successful and strong can be hard to learn. It’s not impossible though. There are strong relationships out there and if you are looking to learn how to make your relationship successful and strong, you might want to take a look below. Below, I’ve got the top 9 changes that men should make to help learn how to make a relationship successful!

1. TAKE OWNERSHIP

The first thing that a man needs to learn in the way of how to make a relationship successful is to take ownership. A boyfriend typically can handle any situation and can just take charge of it. Ladies, if your man isn’t skillfully managing the household and upholding promises to you, it might be time to call him out on it.

2. SURPRISE HER

The key to learning how to make a relationship successful is surprising each other, truly revealing part of yourself to the other person. Little surprises, little notes, small little romantic gestures are truly a way to a girl’s heart guys. So why not add in a little mystery and surprise to your relationship?

3. BE ROMANTIC

I can’t say this enough – be romantic guys! A simple gesture such as picking up a movie that you know she loves is a great example of how well you pay attention to your girl. If she’s having a bad day, don’t make it worse, just cheer her up with ice cream in bed or a night out on the town!

4. BE STRONG

A woman likes when a guy is strong. I’m not saying that you need to overpower her, but the key to learning how to make a relationship successful is being strong for her when she needs it. Is she going through a hard time at work? Let her know it’s okay and help her work through it.

5. HELP HER MAKE DECISIONS

Decision making should always be a team effort, not just one-sided. When you’re the guy in the relationship, you probably constantly want to make the decision and get it over with right? Well, if you help her make the decision and work it out as a team, you have a better chance of learning how to make a relationship successful instead of forcing your decision on her!

6. BE GENTLE WHEN NEEDED

Sometimes a man can be really hard and harsh. Guys, you’re dealing with maternal girls, you want to make sure that you are able to tone down the strong and be gentle when she needs it. Sometimes, all it takes are a few soft words to make all of the difference!

7. LEARN BODY LANGUAGE

Guys, if she is fuming, you probably know it by her body language. The very first step that you should take when you’re learning how to make a relationship successful should be learning her body language. We’re girls, we do show a lot in our face and bodies, pay attention!

8. UNDERSTAND MOODS

Sometimes we’re emotional. Not all of the time, but sometimes we get into moods and have mood swings that we aren’t able to control. If you find yourself in a mood swing, just wait it out and eventually, we become happy again. Just be understanding!

9. BE NEAT

One of the biggest complaints that most women when they are in a relationship with a guy is that they are sloppy. Guys, pick up your laundry, do the dishes once in a while and truly make your girl feel special. If you stay neat, I promise you won’t fight as much!

Girls with Beautiful Smiles (32 pics)

Adam East

Dec 17, 2011

7 OF WOMEN’S MOST PUZZLING BEHAVIORS EXPLAINED

Adam East

Dec 17, 2011

Women Behavior, the things we do, say, think or worry about often confuse our men quite a bit. We don’t always understand them either, we’re mad when they refuse to share their problems with us and we spend days trying to figure out what’s wrong even when nothing is wrong. Well, we could agree to disagree or talk about it a little bit and, since I prefer talking, I’ve, logically, chosen the latter. So, in case you’ve been busting your behind trying to figure us out and finally understand female women behavior and why they act the way they do, feel free read more about 7 of the most puzzling women’s behaviors listed above.

1. HER BEST FRIEND CAN BECOME HER WORST ENEMY IN JUST 48 HOURS AND GO BACK TO BEING HER BEST FRIEND JUST AS FAST

Women are more sensitive to hormonal changes, plus they talk more than men which means saying the wrong thing at the wrong time is actually pretty easy. We, ladies, also like to discuss our feelings way more than men do and when a friend does or says something to hurt us, we’ll insist on sorting it out then and there.

2. SHE IS GENUINELY SAD WHEN SHE BELIEVES A CERTAIN OUTFIT IS MAKING HER LOOK FAT AND ECSTATIC WHEN SHE IS WEARING SOMETHING THAT IS MAKING HER LOOK SKINNY

This is a typical women behavior we just can’t explain or get rid of. A woman is happy when she looks good and she looks good when she’s happy. Confusing? Quite a bit! So, when you notice that she’s freaking out over a dress that she believes looks terrible on her (although it looks just as great as the last time), just try to say something to cheer her up.

3. SHE WILL BUY SOMETHING THAT LOOKS VERY MUCH LIKE THE THING SHE ALREADY HAS

Okay, do you really want a lecture on why that black dress is different than the other black dress? Just nod, say it’s lovely and you’re off the hook. Look at your closet – how many white (or black) shirts do you have? How many tracksuits? This is not a just a woman behavior you need to write of as silly – it’s something we all do.

4. SHE NEEDS AT LEAST HALF AN HOUR TO PULL OFF A CASUAL LOOK

Okay, let’s be real – dressing casually is different for men and women. A man needs to wash his face and teeth, put on a pair of jeans and a tee and wear shoes. THE END. A woman has to wash her face, wash her teeth, apply foundation and a coat of mascara, do something with her hair in case the current hairstyle is not presentable, put on some clothes match her shoes and her bag and, at last, accessorize accordingly. See the difference? Flip through channels in the meanwhile – we know you love that.

5. SHE WILL BUY, WEAR AND LOVE UNCOMFORTABLE SHOES

Your woman may show up wearing something that, regardless of how Atractive it might be, looks painfully uncomfortable. She’ll complain about it all night long and show up the next time wearing the same shoes. “Why ?”,you’ll probably wonder! Well, the answer is pretty simple! Wearing new shoes and knowing how great they make her legs and butt look is a huge ego boost. Our shoe size is, in the same time, the only thing that doesn’t change with years and with shoes we don’t have to worry about trying to put them on one day only to realize they don’t fit anymore. So, to wrap things up – they make us feel Atractive, they make us look Atractive and they will never be THE ones to suggest we’ve gained a few pounds!

6. IF SHE’S HUNGRY, SHE HAS TO EAT “NOW!”

A woman is sometimes so involved in what others want that she completely forgets to focus on her needs so if you’ve noticed that she often doesn’t sit to eat until the hunger gets unbearable, do her a favor and don’t get mad about it. We often don’t eat because we want to eat with you, we sometimes skip lunch getting ready for our dates with you so, when we finally say, “I’m hungry”, it basically means “I need to eat now” so, please, be a knight in the shining armor and remember to stop by the bakery on the next crossing! It might be one of those strange women behaviors but hey, you love us for it – don’t you?

7. JUST “GOOD” IS NOT AN OPTION – SHE HAS TO LOOK GREAT

Obsession with looking perfect from all sides might easily be one of the most puzzling women behaviors most men could never relate to. Why are we so worried about the way our dress looks from the back? Mostly because we know that’s exactly where you’ll be looking at when we’re not paying attention. LOL!

So, guys and girls – which is the most puzzling typically women behavior you’ve managed to come across recently and are there any other women behaviors you’d like to point out?

7 BEST ROMANTIC MOVIE SCENES EVER

Adam East

Dec 17, 2011

I don’t know about you but for me, the best romantic movie scenes are one of the things that make a certain movie worth watching and I simply hate when movie directors opt for those cliché teasers such as interrupting a kiss. Such a decision has totally ruined Babylon A.D for me! Fortunately, there are plenty of other great romantic movies and, although some of them are waaay too old or way too cheesy, I can’t seem to get them off my mind simply because they contain some of the most romantic movie scenes ever. Now, I’m sure you have your list of best romantic movie scenes too, so let’s compare notes!

1. GHOST

Raise your hand if you think the pottery scene was one of the most romantic movie scenes ever! I’ve seen this movie like a dozen times and I’d still watch it simply because of that scene. Why? Because the emotion the ghost Sam and a very much alive Molly share in that scene is something out of this world (literally!).

2. SLEEPLESS IN SEATTLE

When you have Meg Ryan and Tom Hanks starring in the same movie, you simply know there’s going to be an “Awwww” moment. Now, for me Sleepless in Seattle is basically one big “Awww” because everything from the way they met each other to the very last “happy ending” scene is so breathtaking. They make such a great pair!

3. TITANIC

Okay, please don’t laugh, now! You won’t? Well, good, because I’d like to remind you of that legendary steamy car scene, the famous “flying” scene and, of course, the ultimate act of love – Jack’s dying so Rose could live. Now, if these scenes didn’t make your eyes even a bit wet then you have every right to say the movie sucked. I’ve cried and I’m not embarrassed to admit that.

4. AN OFFICER AND A GENTLEMAN

This movie is older than I am and I must say that, if it wasn’t for my cable TV, the MGM channel and one utterly boring Sunday evening, I’d probably never get to see this version of Richard Gere. Navy officer and a real gentleman – now that’s something you definitely must see! But the ending is just… well I won’t ruin it for you so let me just tell you this – it’s breathtaking, it’s old Hollywood and it’s sooo “retromantic”!

5. CASABLANCA

Have you watched this movie? Well, in case you haven’t you better do it soon because we simply can’t discuss best romantic movie scenes without paying special credit to this somewhat sad classic. Rick and Lisa didn’t have their happy ending but they sure taught us what true love is all about – letting go. And you know that “We’ll always have Paris” quote? Well, now you know where it came from.

6. SAY ANYTHING

The ’80s might strike you as a bit odd in terms of fashion but if you really want to enjoy an urban serenade love scene, I suggest you check this one out. I mean, come on, a guy holding a boom box over his head trying to win his girl back! Priceless! It’s actually a very nice love-story about a girl and a boy who manage to keep dating despite their differences. Beauty and the beast, lady and the tramp, daddy’s girl and the underdog… you know…

Okay, here’s one movie I’m sure you’ve all seen! Right? Well, although I prefer Adam Sandler’s comic side, I must agree he and Drew Barrymore always manage to create some of the most romantic movie scenes ever. In fact, it’s kind of like that Meg Ryan-Tom Hanks thing – you simply know there’s going to be some tears. Remember that scene in the airplane when he sings for her? Awwww! I’d really like to see some guy try that for real!

Most Unbelievable Birth Cases on Earth

Adam East

Dec 14, 2011

Life is a gift of God. The Birth is the only form of evolution of Life. But sometime the birth can be in an odd way too which may astounded doctors itself. Now let’s look at some of the most unbelievable birth cases on Earth. Get ready to get surprise…

1. World’s Youngest Mother – 5 years old.

Lina Medina, is the youngest confirmed mother in medical history, who was born on September 27, 1933 in the small village of Paurange and was only 5 years 8 months old to give birth to her child on May 14, 1939. To be specific, Lina Medina’s parents thought their 5-year-old daughter had a huge abdominal tumor and when her father carried her to a hospital. However, it turned out that she was pregnant, and the baby weighed 2.7 kg.

2. World’s Tiniest Baby

Rumaisa Rahman was born on 19th September 2004 with 10 inches long and 8.6 ounces heavy. His mother Mahajabeen Sheikh was pregnant only in 25 weeks and six days. Rumaisa Rahman, the world’s tiniest baby, was born at Loyola University Medical Center in Maywood . He weights less than a can of beer.

3. World’s First Male Mother

Thomas Beatie was born as a woman before she went through a surgery to be a man ten years ago. When his 34-year-old wife Nancy could not conceive due to hysterectomy, Thomas Beatie decided that he had baby himself through artificial insemination. Hence Thomas Beatie became the first male mother on Earth.

4. The Black and White Twins

This is a million-to-one survival twins born with different skin and eye colors. Marcia and Millie Biggs, both 4 years old, astounded all doctors, teachers and other people when persuading that they are twins. Marcia, the blonde hair, takes after the mother while Millie, the black one, likes the father. It’s indeed a Miracle…

5. Most Surviving Children from a Single Birth – 8 babies

Nadya Denise Doud-Suleman Gutierrez gets international attention when giving birth to 8 babies in one single time in January 2009. All babies were conceived via in-vitro fertilization. The unemployed single mother already has six young children at home also by in-vitro fertilization. Nadya Denise Doud-Suleman Gutierrez is known as the “Octomom”.

6. World’s Oldest First Time Mother – 70 years old

Indian Rajo Devi Lohan gave birth to her first child in November 2008 when she was at the age of 70. The child is the magic thing for Rajo Devi Lohan after more than 40 years waiting.

7. A Mom with no legs and one arm

Melek, 24, becomes a mother of nine-months-old Semih. Despite of having no legs and only one arm, she still successfully had baby thanks to caesarean section. Melek and Mehmet are enjoying their endless happiness with their son Semih.

8. Black Parents with White Baby

Nigerian couple Ben and Angela Ihegboro gave birth to a fair skinned, blue-eyed, blonde-haired baby girl which surprised all experts. The baby is not an albino. The scientific test also dispels any rumor of wife’s unfaithfulness. The baby is named Nmachi – meaning “Beauty of God”.

How Does Sleep Determines Your Personality?

Adam East

Dec 13, 2011

The way you sleep determines your personality. So, Check each one out and find which suits you the most….

Happiness – It’s All Around You!

Adam East

Dec 12, 2011

The only joy in the world is to begin.”

~ Cesare Pavese

“Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.”

~ Mahatma Gandhi

“The moments of happiness we enjoy take us by surprise. It is not that we seize them, but that they seize us.”

~ Ashley Montagu

“Happiness depends upon ourselves.”

~ Aristotle

“Even if happiness forgets you a little bit, never completely forget about it.”

~ Jaques Prevert

“One of the secrets of a happy life is continuous small treats.”

~ Iris Murdoch

“It is only possible to live happily ever after on a daily basis.”

~ Margaret Bonanno

“The pleasure which we most rarely experience gives us greatest delight.”

~ Epictetus

“Remember this, that very little is needed to make a happy life.”

~ Marcus Aurelius

“I wake up every morning with a great desire to live joyfully.”

~ Anna Howard Shaw

Breathtaking Urban Street Photography

Adam East

Dec 12, 2011

Today feature a breathtaking collection of 25+ breathtaking urban street photography examples brought to us by Andrew Mohrer.

Andrew lives in Brooklyn and works in Manhattan as a bartender. He bought his first DSLR back in June of 2009. Ever since then, he has been addicted to photography. He loves the cinematic style, and that is probably what he is best known for. He also uses his 5D to shoot video, and is working on a short film about the occupy Wall Street protest at the moment.